爱华网Communication--TheCardigans
For 27 years I've been trying to believe
and confide in different people I've found.
Some of them got closer than others
Some wouldn't even bother
and then you came around
I didn't really know what to call you,
you didn't know me at all
But I was happy to explain.
I never really knew how to move you
So I tried to intrude through
the little holes in your vanes
And I saw you
But that's not an invitation
That's all I get
If this is communication
I disconnect
I've seen you, I know you
But I don't know
How to connect, so I disconnect
You always seem to know where to find me
and I'm still here behind you
In the corner of your eye.
I'll never really learn how to love you
But I know that I love you
through the hole in the sky.
Where I see you
And that's not an invitation
That's all I get
If this is communication
I disconnect
I've seen you, I know you
But I don't know
How to connect, so I disconnect
Well this is an invitation
It's not a thread
If you want communication
That's what you get
I'm talking and talking
But I don't know
How to connect
And I hold a record for being patient
With your kind of hesitation
I need you, you want me
But I don't know
How to connect, so I disconnect
I disconnect
http://www.tudou.com/programs/view/ACu-HMLCsTM/
其实这首歌有很多视频，不过这个静止的手拿香烟的女孩的画面最触动我。因为十几年的自己就是在这样手足无措，词不达意的情况下自以为镇定潇洒实则超级愚蠢地抽了人生的唯一一根烟。不知是被烟呛到了，还是因为不被领会的失落，总之眼泪不知趣地落下。有时候沉默而委屈的失落比撕心裂肺的呐喊更痛彻心扉。
I need a coomunication. But Ican't feel thatyouhave the same feeling as me. So Idisconnect.
词不达意--林忆莲
歌手：有些人用一辈子去学习,
化解沟通的难题,
为你我也可以,
我的快乐与恐惧猜疑,
很想都翻译成言语,
带你进我心底,
我们就像隔着一层玻璃,
看得见却触不及,
虽然我离你几毫米,
你不会知道我有多着急,
无心的坐视不理,
我尴尬的沉默里,
泪水在滴,
我无法传达我自己,
从何说起,
要如何翻译我爱你,
寂寞不已,
我也想能与你搭起桥梁,
建立默契,
却词不达意,
在你的盲点里寸步不移,
不论天晴或下雨,
陪着你悲伤欢喜,
你难道从来不觉得好奇,
你身旁冷清拥挤,
我一直在这里,
不说一句.
我无法传达我自己,
从何说起,
要如何翻译我爱你,
寂寞不已,
我也想能与你搭起桥梁,
建立默契,
却词不达意,
我无法传达我自己,
从何说起,
却无法翻译我爱你,
遗憾不已,
我也想能与你搭起桥梁,
建立默契,
我必须得先看明白我自己,
翻译成一句我爱你,
我也想能与你搭起桥梁,
建立默契,
却词不达意,
词不达意.
http://video.sina.com.cn/v/b/24240901-1313684204.html
（这首歌的视频都是live版本，花枝招展的歌手和灯光产说的舞台都很不适合这首歌的意境，所以宁愿选择什么换面也没有的视频，想象吧，回忆吧。）
虽然一直很排斥翻唱，但必须承认，无论是原唱的《Communication》还是翻唱的《词不达意>，都是我喜欢的类型。听百度音乐盒林忆莲专题时，这首《词不达意》就是心动曲目，后来下载到手机上也时常听听。如果不是嗓音条件和演唱技巧所限，这应该是我的OK曲目之一吧。真得很想OK那些自己喜欢的歌曲，而不是因为琅琅上口而OK的。唱这首歌的时候林忆莲绝对是都市成熟女人的心态，经历阅历无数，无论是词不达意的无奈还是春风得意的喜悦都表现的很到位。
周末时偶然听到了瑞典五人组合The Cardigans的原唱《Communication》，让我感慨万千。虽然某些介绍说他们来自高福利的北欧国家，所以年纪轻轻就很有些随意和懒散，或是少年不识愁滋味的无病呻吟。其实我倒觉得这种面对爱情不知所措的年少情怀就是要用慵懒的声音和舒缓的旋律来表达。无论福利如何，某个年纪的爱情总是真实而无奈的。而这种真实无奈除了呐喊，也可以淡淡地失望地表达。
虽然《词不达意》不是照搬《Communication》的中文翻译，歌者的年龄，阅历，心态也各不相同，但是我觉得无论是大女人，还是小女人，都是女人，面对真爱时那种手足无措，词不达意就是最直接的爱的表达，只是这种方式却很难被对方领会或接受，于是只能回避或被回避，直到失之交臂，直到时间让我们忘记曾经。但是这样的失落和无奈既让我们痛苦v，也让我们成长。
