爱华网2013-04-0221:03
Careforthepeoplewhocareaboutyou
Sometimes,Ithinkaboutthisthing.Andafteraperiod,therewouldbeafriendpouredouthisorherbrackishwatertome.Whyotherpersonsyoucarebutdonotcareaboutyou?Especiallyinthesituationthatapersonunrequitedlovewithanother.
Itisaveryinterestingpsychologyphenomenon.Ifyoulikeaperson,youwouldconsiderthatthatpersonhintedyouthatshe/helovesyoutoo,whateverthepersondoes.Soifyouunburdenedyourlovetotheperson,andshe/herefused,youmaybeveryangryordepressed.Howcouldshe/hedothat?She/hehintsme!Oh,dear,that'syourproblem,nottheanotherone.
Intheworld,mostpeoplewanttogetthingsnotbelongtothem.Inextremeevent,aguymaybuymanyluxuriousthingsthatheneedn't,eatlotsofexpensivefoods,watchmagnificentwristwatchorevenwatches,wearglassesinlayedwithjewelerswhenhegotrichformapoorposition.That'sbecausehereallywanttoberespectandsatisfyhischildhood’slost.Whatamentalfactorwhichmaybetheoriginalsin,theGreedy.Getrichisnotabusiness,butWanttogetmoreandmoreisabigdeal.Emotioneventsareoftentodowithgreedy.Onehandyouwanttogetotherslove,butonanotherhands,thatpersonwhoyoupursuingmaywanttogetmoreyourlove.Youdomoreandmore,theymightgetmorecomfort.
Becausewealwaysfocusonthethingsnotbelongtous,sowefeelpainfulanddoubt.Andweoftenignorethepersonwhoreallycaresaboutus.Anoldpattern,aboyApursuesabeautifulgirlAwhodonotlovehim,butthegirlBwholovestheboyAisnotbeenlovedwithher.AndgirlArefusestheboyAagainandagain.MaybethegirlAisenjoyingthefeelingthatbeingperused,butinreality,theboyAmustnotwaitforthegirlA.Becauseinnovel,protagonistwithfullcharactersisgood,however,inreality,weneedtofacefamily,future,finance,ageandsoon.Ifyoulovetheboy,pleasedon'tlethimwaitingandprobehim.Everyonehasapatiencelimitation.Whenyoubrokeupit,heleavesfromyou,nowitisyourcryingtime.Iamwonderingwhygirlsliketoprobeboystoo.Maybeyoudonotagreewithme,butIthink,toomuchprobesarenotreallylove.Howcouldyoubearhispain?
Andsomelow-downmentrytocatchagirl’swhoreallydonotloveyouheart.Maybeyourloveisgreat,butuseless.Youjustwasteyourtimeandpatience.Maybeyouthinkyoufallinloveatfirstsight,thesamethingneedhappentohertoo.Butreality,theprobabilityisreallylow.Whywejustwastetimeonthepersonwhodoesnotcareforyou?Youjustwanttogetthethingsnotbelongtoyou!Andcleavergirlsknowthat,butifthecleavergirlsdothat(notbecaughtbyboys),theymightbenochancetogetarealloverintheirlife.
Soifyouareahunter,pleasechoosearightprey,theymaynotveryhot,buttheywilltakecareofyouandconsideraboutyoualllife.Ifyouaretheprey,pleasecherishyourhunters,becausetheyreallyloveyou(atleastthemoment,andbesidestheguywithdarkdesigns).Loveislikeabalancesheet,youneedtobalancethecreditanddebit.Iwishallyouhappiness.
